Every woman wants to know techniques for giving oral sex to her male partner and here it is.
You should start with a little teasing. Tease the head of the penis with your tongue. The head is the most sensitive portion of the penis. Pay particular attention to the tip of the penis. This is the equivalent to the female clitoris; it is a super-sensitive bundle of nerves.
Basic Technique:
Slide your hand up and down the penis, closing it slightly when you reach the top and opening it slightly as you move back down. While doing this keep his penis moving in and out of your mouth (lips covering teeth) which should be applying a firm but comfortable pressure.
Next lick his penis as if it were a lollypop, using long slow movements over the head and up the sides. Take his penis into your mouth and swirl your tongue around the head.
Deep-throating is where you take the whole penis into your mouth rather than keeping a hand or two on it. This can be very difficult and uncomfortable, resulting in gagging. If you aren't comfortable deep-throating your partner it's ok because the head of the penis is the most sensitive part anyway so that's what's most important.
A little flavored lubricant, chocolate, and honey, pop rocks, ice, a sip of something hot or anything else that you think tastes good will make this a feast that can satisfy both of you. Pop some toothpaste in your mouth before you put his penis in your mouth and it will give a very cool feeling (temperature-wise). Another trick is to try popping an Altoids into your mouth before you begin. These curiously strong mints can give a fabulous tingle.
Also, try twisting your head to one direction as your hand twists gently the other way. Men can find it very erotic to watch you lick their cock so be sure to remember that part of sex is showmanship; look him in the eye and while you do dirty things to him. Judge his reaction and what he loves and balance it with what you are enjoying doing.
Tease your partner by changing the speed, get him really aroused by moving faster and sucking harder and then slow down so that he does not reach orgasm. Take him to the very brink of orgasm (not easy) and then slow him down. Enjoy it (he will), you are in complete control.
Discuss the matter of ejaculation before you start. If you'd not like him to ejaculate in your mouth, let him recognize that and ask him to offer you a shoulder tap or even a verbal announcement You can also have him wear a condom (flavored, if you like) so he can let his ejaculate go without discomfort or awkwardness.
Always remember to keep an open line of communication between you and your partner during sex activities as to what both of you like and dislike.
