Tie and tease refers to a type of
sexual activity which involves tying up a partner and bringing him or her to a
state of sexual arousal while controlling
when, if at all, to allow them to orgasm. If the tied partner is eventually
allowed to orgasm it is usually referred to as a controlled orgasm and if
orgasm is denied it is known as sexual denial or tease and denial. Often, the
bound person will be gagged, this increases their sense of helplessness.
Many people are curious about
bondage but really have no clue as to what it entails. A basic definition of
bondage is that it restricts someone's movement. Many people have tried a bit
of "tie and tease" and found that it spices up their love life in a
very exciting way.
The most important aspect of
bondage games is trusting your partner because the other partner is restricted
therefore becoming quite vulnerable. These kinds of games should never be
played if you do not completely trust your partner. The active partner should
also think about the pleasure of the restrained partner and never use the
session purely to fulfil their own fantasies.
People are attracted to this type
of play for many different reasons. Being tied up allows a person to relax and
enjoy being given sexual pleasure without having to
worry about giving pleasure back to their partner at the same time. The person
performing the bondage gets increased feelings of personal power, however, this
power must never be abused.
There are many items that can be
incorporated into a tie and tease sessions such as ropes, whips, chains,
blindfolds, gags, and feathers. There are hundreds of other items that may be
used depending on the type of tie and tease session you wish to re-enact. It
all depends on what level of comfort that you and your partner have with each
other and how much you completely trust one another. Such sessions can last for
a few minutes or a few hours. They can be done with two partners or several
partners in an orgy type atmosphere.
There should always be a safe
word agreed upon before you begin your tie and tease session. This is something
that the passive partner can say when they want the other person to stop what
they are doing, a word that is commonly used is 'enough'. The active partner
must stop what they are doing immediately, and release the passive partner
immediately.
Never attempt bondage in a
desolate place, simply just in case, there's an accident that leaves the active
partner injured and the passive partner tied up with no method of getting help.
If you've never tried bondage before, don't go directly into anything that uses
complicated equipment. This is for specialists only and has additional safety
issues that you may not understand. Drink and drugs can cause you to seriously
underestimate security risks. Safe sex rules apply. Always use a condom for penetrative
sex.
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